“Researchers report 15% of adults in the U.S. have used online dating sites or mobile dating apps.”

Pew Research Center – 2016

About us

Dating, Love, & Sex After Age 60+? 

Our Founder Judi Bonilla began online dating  in her 50s, just about the time she began  teaching computer training classes for San Diego Oasis (SDO). SDO is a lifelong learning center for individuals age 50+. As the spring semester was closing students began lingering longer after class.  In those“after school” talks one question get coming up. Do you think I have the computer skills for online dating? After the 5th person asked Judi did her research and found there wasn’t a resource for adults who wanted to date later in life.  The program curriculum includes  the technical, social, and safety skills needed for online dating. In addition, our workshops include a sexual wellness component.  



Senior Communities

Are you a life enrichment center or a 55+ retirement community? Invite Come Back Cupid! to your community and choose a program that meets the needs of your residents.

Lunch and Learn

Host a community event for your residents. Choose a presentation that best fits the educational needs of your residents and potential residents.


Host one or all four workshops that encompassing the various aspects of online dating.